Showing posts with label homosocial. Show all posts
Showing posts with label homosocial. Show all posts
Wednesday, April 22, 2015
What Qualifies as Homo-erotic?
In Twelfth Night, the attraction between Duke Orsino and Viola-as-Cesario can be interpreted as homoerotic pretty easily. The duke takes an instant liking to Cesario, noting the "young man's" beauty and even taking pains to describe it. He tells Cesario that "Diana's lip / is not more smooth and rubious; thy small pipe / is as the maiden's organ, shrill and sound" (1.5.30-32). He clearly admires Cesario's looks, and describes them as more beautiful than Diana. Orsino does emphasize Cesario's feminine traits, but this desire can still be categorized as homoerotic since he believes himself to be attracted to a man. In fact, even in the end of the play, when Viola's plot is revealed, Orsino refers to her as "boy" and leaves the stage with Viola still in drag. Her true "women's weeds" are never shown, leading us to believe that the desire here, at least from Orsino, is homoerotic and homosexual.
I find this attraction very interesting. In Shakespeare's day, homosocial bonding was the norm; men had relationships with other men that they simply did not have with women. Male friendship was certainly idolized, but I would argue that it was often homoerotic as well. This is certainly the case with Cesario and Orsino's relationship; there is an underlying homoerotic tension throughout every interaction.
What I thought was interesting was how this has changed. Today, the terms "homosocial" and "homoerotic" are fairly uncommon, even unknown to some. However, I would argue that the underlying culture has not changed. Homosocial bonding is still very prevalent, even flaunted and celebrated as the highest level of friendship.
I think the idea of underlying homoeroticism is very interesting when applied to ideas of masculinity today. What came to mind immediately were Men's Health covers. Here is a magazine marketed towards men and largely written by and for men, with health, dating, and sex tips. Here's an example of a recent cover featuring Shaun T, fitness guru known for his Insanity and T-25 videos.
This feels incredibly homoerotic to me. All of the covers are similar; men set up to be admired for their physique. However, I'm willing to bet that were we to throw out the word homoerotic, most of the "Men's Health" audience would recoil. Interestingly, Orsino is attracted to Cesario for his boyish, feminine traits, while chiseled, muscular men frequent the cover of Men's Health. Regardless, I view both situations as homoerotic, and I would be interested to see what you all think about this and how our views of homoeroticism have changed since Shakespeare's day.
Monday, March 30, 2015
Lesbihonest… Are there really any boundaries to friendship?
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Girlfriends, circa 1600s |
Like Antonio and Bassanio of Merchant of Venice, Rosalind and Celia portray the liberal love between two (usually) heterosexual friends. These two women of As You Like It exemplify the loyalty of true friendship. We see their relationship and admire the ways that they look out for each other and partake in mischievous schemes together. If we look a little closer, though, we might detect some homoerotic or homosocial behavior in their relationship. Some people would say that the "friendship" between Celia and Rosalind is actually a true love affair. Whether or not there is any actual homosexual desire between the two women, it is undeniable that they are at the least very devoted friends:
"The Duke's daughter [Celia] her cousin so loves her, being ever from their cradles bred together, that she would have followed her [Rosalind's] exile, or have died to stay behind her…Never two ladies loved as they do" (1.1.93-97)
"If [Rosalind] be a traitor, / Why so am I [Celia]. We still have slept together, / Rose at an instant, learned, played, eat together, / And wheresoever we went, like Juno's swans / Still we went coupled and inseparable" (1.3.66-70)
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Girlfriends, circa 2000s |
The problem is that we strive to label everything as black and white, straight or gay. Maybe critics are genuinely shocked by the relationship of Celia and Rosalind because they find the liberality of such a feminine relationship of that time strange. Or maybe they are oblivious to how homoerotic or homosocial their own relationships and the relationships of people around them actually are. On the other hand, maybe there is something deeper between Celia and Rosalind. Celia could be in love with Rosalind, but we'll never really know. Personally, I read their relationship and mischief as Sex and the City-esque: two friends sticking together with the idea that "maybe our girlfriends are our soul mates and guys are just people to have fun with."
Here are the links to those lists… In case you need to gush about them with your BFF.
http://www.buzzfeed.com/kristinharris/21-signs-your-best-friend-is-actually-your-soulmate#.dcMvBKd9V
http://www.buzzfeed.com/kirstenking/no-boundaries-with-my-gal-pals#.denZ8AnPw
http://www.buzzfeed.com/erinlarosa/18-female-friendship-truths-as-told-by-bridesmaids#.yaGLkxZlp
Saturday, March 28, 2015
The Merchant of Bromance
In The Merchant of Venice, the relationship between Bassanio
and Antonio is pretty bromantic relationship, and there’s no way that could be
homosexual. According to the very reliable source of Urban Dictionary, a
bromance “describes the complicated love and affection shared by two straight
males.” If that’s all that a bromance is, why can’t Bassanio and Antonio just
be bromantic together? Sure, they have some pretty serious signs of love
together, but who doesn’t have a few love moments with their bro every now and
then? The fact of the matter is, maybe they are just good buds, who love one another’s company.
When looking for a modern day bromance which could totally
mirror Antonio and Bassanio, the most comparable and most famous bromance might
be Seth Rogen and James Franco. These two bros have done tons of movies and
skits together, without being the slightest bit homosexual. In particular,
their reenactment of Kanye West’s music video for ‘Bound 2’. There was nothing
even slightly homosexual about their reenactment. They’re just expressing their
bromantic feelings for one another through this video among other things. So, if
James Franco and Seth Rogen can do it, why not Antonio and Bassanio? In my
opinion, people are hating on them for their “homosexual” relationship, but
they really just wanted to have a nice casual bromantic relationship. The fact
that Bassanio is presumed gay because he’d do more for his bestie than his new
wife isn’t so farfetched or homosexual. What guy wouldn’t do more for his long
term bromance partner than his new wife, who he may love, but once a bro always
a bro. Bassanio is just trying to live by the bro code, “bros before hoes”.
As this video that Nigahiga presents about bromance clearly
shows, there’s nothing gay about being in a bromance, and Antonio is just
Bassanio’s male-boo and vice versa. NOTHING HOMOSEXUAL ABOUT ALL THAT, just a
little homosocial. There is nothing gay about their relationship, just like
there’s nothing gay about Seth Rogen and James Franco’s relationship. Antonio
and Bassanio’s relationship was totally heterosexual and not gay in the
slightest, just loving each other in the most heterosexual way.
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